It takes a lot of strength and determination to fix the relationship. Wondering how to fix a broken relationship? You are on the right blog.
Even if you are facing many problems in your relationship, you can turn things around. There is always a hope. You can also read how to maintain a relationship if facing some ups and dows.
Here are the steps by Just be witty on how to fix a broken relationship:
1. Write Down Your Own Thoughts
Why is your relationship not same anymore? How did it break and how did it get to that point? What do you wish to have never happened or happened differently?
Organize all your thoughts going through your mind. Get a pen and paper and just write what you are feeling. PS you can use mobile notes area. Don’t think, Just write down every thought that comes to mind.
2. HEAR – To Hear Your Partner, Stay Present & Listen
When your partner is speaking or sharing his/her point of view, make an effort to listen and understand. Speak your heart out and put your ego aside and try to understand your partner needs, emotions and expectations. Take down your defenses, It is not about defending yourself or prooving your point.
3. Remember The Happy Times You Had.
There are times when I have seen couples fighting over silly things and creating the issue out of none. I feel like a referee or relationship advisor for them. Then out of nowhere, one of them refers to the memories, past experiences, they’ve shared together and they both start laughing. The tension between them is immediately gone, both realized their mistakes and importance of another person. So make sure, whenever facing any troubles try remembering the happy times you had. It will surely help to cool down the environment and think more clearly
4. Avoid Provoking
You may are aware of certain pushing buttons that can hurt another person, avoid talking about that in your conversation, no matter how much you’re tempted to do so. Otherwise, you will spoil everything you had or could have in future yourself.
5. Apologize for Past Hurts
Always start the conversation by apologizing. Don’t allow your ego come in the way of the beautiful relationship you had. Ideally, both of you should think about past hurts, regrets, and talk about it and apologize for your part in it.
Just say what you are feeling is in your heart. Just let them know how important they are to you. Don’t accuse, just say sorry for your part.
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